Something to consider in the back of your mind for a few days –
Do you become more capable by “should-ing” on yourself?
Does feeling like you’re constantly doing things you “have to” create the results you want?
Is “being responsible” something that helps you take 100% ownership of your choices, actions, and results?
Does it encourage you to cope, to see ownership as something that happens “out there” more than inside of you?
You learned many of these things growing up. Do they still serve you well?
If not, you can change that. I can help.